It’s Not Too Late To Register…..

It’s Not Too Late To Register…………………

BUSINESS STRATEGIES FOR 2012

Thursday, February 23, 2012 from 1:00 PM – 3:00 PM

BRANDON KRIEGER WILL SPEAK ON:

BUSINESS STRATEGIES FOR 2012

SOCIAL MEDIA

COMMUNITY GROWTH

NETWORKING

Brandon’s goal is to provide you with his stories, good and/or bad, to provide an open forum for you to ask questions and learn how to overcome challenges you may be currently having. This way success can be achieved easier in your business and personal life.

Where: The Full Life Centre
843 Dundas St. W.,
Oshawa, ON

When: Thursday, February 23, 2012
1:00 p.m. until 3:00 p.m.

Agenda: 1:00 – 1:45 Brandon speaks
1:45 – 2:00 – Q & A

2:00 – 3:00 – Networking with Brandon and like-minded entrepreneurs

WINGS and HEROS Members – $15.00 (Members of WINGS & HEROS pay at the door)
Non-Members Welcome – $20.00
Note: You have the option of paying by PalPal, or paying at the door
To reserve a seat, please confirm your attendance to diane@dianestoddart.ca

Don’t miss this opportunity to hear Brandon, have your questions answered, and network with like-minded
entrepreneurs.

Full Life Integrated Healthcare Centre
843 King Street West
Oshawa, Ontario L1J 2L4

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Are You Hungry Enough To Achieve Success…

 

Yesterday was a busy day for me, I had 1 early morning meeting with a large Corporation and then in the afternoon I had another amazing meeting with one of the top marketing companies in Toronto. Both meetings were in regards to me working Social Marketing with them.

The question I have for myself is this

“Am I doing enough?”

“Am I hungry enough to achieve success?”

“What am I willing to do that the other people in my niche are just not doing?”

If you are an entrepreneur ask yourself these exact questions and see what you come up with. I find that every time I ask these questions there is always more I can do.

Gary Vaynerchuk calls it “Hustling” and to be honest I never realized how much you have to want to succeed. You have to be willing to give it your all. Put yourself out there and when you hear “No” you just keep going, find other ways.

Ask yourself these questions today and see what you come up with.

 

Love & Chi

Brandon Krieger
www.BrandonKrieger.com

 

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Social Technologies Challenge Day 2

How is Your Social Technologies Challenge Going?

 

I wanted to show you my results just after 1 full day of marketing properly. You can see my sites are starting to rank higher in Google’s results.

 

What are you doing to market your business?

Is your marketing helping you get in front of the crowd?

Are you using all the “Free Marketing” that is available to you?

I would love to hear your responses, comment below.

 

Love & Chi,

Brandon Krieger
www.BrandonKrieger.com

 

 

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Really? Are The Answers Right In front Us…

Interesting how at the exact time you need something it is right there for you.  I’m sure we all have heard this from someone at one point in our life. If you ask and listen you will receive the answer, or something along that line.

Yesterday I received a tongue lashing from someone I highly respect and consider a really good friend. I was pretty up set and asked a simple question “What the fuck!” Then a lot crap followed, my negative ego saw a huge opening and it had a field day with me for about 15 minutes until I thought I need to ask a better question.  Which was “What do I do now?” I looked up at my Facebook feed and saw this picture pop up. I was like really! Come on!

I personally know this is how the universe works, if you settle yourself, ask the right questions and listen the answers will appear.

I have been receiving amazing videos, content and just listening to motivational audios guiding me back to a better state.

Which brings me to today. I decided to treat myself like a coaching client that I would work with that basically is at their last straw and needs my help.

First I did a history of what was going on just so I had an understanding how bad it was.  If you understand where they have been you know how much they have learned as well if there are cycles they are going to repeat which might need to be changed.

My Answer- When I was most successful I was chasing my dream but then settled because I got into a relationship and lost that drive that nothing will stop me to be successful, that I would do anything to get to that next level; stay up until 3am in the morning when I had to work at 6am, read and study until my eyes hurt, talk to everyone and anyone about what I wanted to accomplish, go to interviews after interviews until I got a contract, then once I got that one worked there for a period of time I would work on a better contract and then a better one, then one I had was never good enough, I would work my ass of at my contract doing the best job I could, taking extra hours you name it.

My biggest challenge wasn’t the relationships it was me, I settled and didn’t realize it.

Second I asked myself about the present and how am I doing today.  To be compassionate with myself and understand that I might need to vent and deal with some things as well understand my true pain and frustration I am dealing with today.

My Answer- I’m feeling disappointment that I am in this situation again. Kind of confused of what to do and where to go. I know my skill set is this

  •  Warehousing
  •  Security
  • Customer Service
  • IT Work
  •  Social Marketing/ Social Technologies
  • Coaching People

The main ones I want to work towards is Social Technologies Coaching combined with Holistic Lifestyle Coaching.

Third what do I want to accomplish in the next 3 months and 6 months this way I can do some future planning and draw out an action plan on how to get there. Plus I can ask the right questions so that I can open myself up to receive information, assistance if need be and have a clear direction to where I need to go.

My Answer -  What I would like to accomplish is get back on my feet in the next 30 days financially and start growing my coaching clients and professional speaking again. In the next 3 months back to coaching full time and building my business. 6 months I will be in demand because I provide great service, results and people love working with me.

How I am going to do this?

My Answer - Since I have more time on my hands here is my action plan

1) Get a J.O.B. to cover my cost for at least the next 6 months this way I don’t have to worry about finances

2) Market Research – find out what people need help with. See if there is something I can provide a solution for that challenge either by one on one coaching, e-book, seminar, talk, webinar…etc How can I provide help to them.

3) Provide Education- writing articles, doing video’s, seminars…etc this has several benefits which are

  • I get things off my chest and stop holding them in, very therapeutic
  • I’m able to brain storm my ideas and be held accountable because I’m doing a public journal that anyone can read.
  • People I might have the opportunity to work with will see what I can do and realize what type of person I am. That I am honest, hard working, don’t give up and will stay true to my word. “My word is my bond”
  • Help people who might be going through the same situation and don’t know what to do

4) Schedule – Daily blogging and possibly bi weekly video’s depending on content and time.

5) Making a list of companies I want to work with and finding ways of connecting with them that are not through their normal channels. I have a few ideas but one challenge which I’m putting out there to the universe is, in the next 30 days I will personally own a

MAC Book PRo 15inch with

i7 Quad processor 2.5GHz

8Gb 1333 MHz DDR3 SDRAM

750GB Serial ATA Drive @ 7200 rpm

Apple Care protection plan

1 year One to One membership

With the newest version of Camtasia Studio

Benefit— I will be so excited to be able to record my video’s, interview, edit them and post them in 1/3 of the time. Skype calls, Google+ hangouts…etc. It takes me a few hours on my amazing Dell XP and some things that it’s just too slow to do.

Don’t be scared to ask for what you want, you never know how things will manifest, but you have to be willing to put yourself out there at all costs.

That is my rough draft of my action plan and I have a morning meeting with myself each morning until I achieve success.

Are you going through a hard time right now? Have you been your own coach and asked yourself these questions?

I would love to hear your responses.

Love & Chi
Brandon Krieger
www.BrandonKrieger.com

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My Own Personal Challenge- Social Technologies

  Who is up for the Challenge?

I’m sitting here late at night doing some market research and wanted to see how one of my keywords were doing, “Social Technologies”.  You can see the results above, let me explain what they mean just to make sure we are all on the same page.

First this is geographically done meaning no matter where you are on the world you will not see the same results as I do. Google has changed their algorithm to provide us with the most relevant search results. One of those changes is by location.  I tell you this because if you do a search and don’t see the exact same results you might question where am I receiving my search results from.

First the key word “Social Technologies”  which is one of the terms I use to describe all the Social sites, media, networking…etc the are all just technologies to help us better connect with people on a global scale.

Next “About 275,000,000 results (0.19 seconds)”  which means there are 275 million links created by people that are related to “Social”, “Technologies” and “Social Technologies”. Now if you use proper SEO and tag your content, website and/or video correctly you will have better results.

Which means:

Description: Social Technologies

Link/URL: www.socialtechnologies.com or www.domainname.com/social-technologies or any various of the two.

SEO: Alt Tags, Meta Tags, Descriptions…etc are all properly coded with “Social Technologies”

Tags: “Social Technologies”

Relevant content: Written, recorded audio or video talking about Social Technologies in the correct context.  For a quick example if I was to write and article talking about fishing and every paragraph I added “Social Technologies” it wouldn’t be relevant which now the search engines can scan content of all kinds and decipher if it’s relevant.

I wanted to give you a little insight before I tell you what my Social Technologies challenge is.

If you look back at the picture you can see I have put a RED arrow pointing to the links. When you go through the list you can see I am not even close to the top. My website is 4th from the bottom on the first page, now don’t get me wrong it takes people a lot of hard  SEO work, proper marketing to get to the first page.  Which I am going to challenge myself over the next 30 days to crush the first page of “Social Technologies”.

Here is my own personal 30 day Challenge

1) To have one of links rank #1 on the first page of Google for the key word “Social Technologies”

2) To have the entire first page with just my content, of course it will all be relevant information helping people how to use Social Technologies properly.  No false backlinks…etc no Black Hat SEO tricks all proper marketing that I have learned over the years.

Today’s date is February 12th, 2012 and I will do a follow up post by March 12th 2012. Now if I complete the challenge sooner I will post my results before.

Home work for you guys reading this…If you’re in business and want to really get in front of the people searching for the keyword that your customers are searching for. I would recommend you do the exact same thing I am doing with one of your main key words.

I would love to see your results before and after. Send them to me by either post or e-mail @ info@knssconsulting.com

Let me know if you have any questions.

Good luck :-)

Love & Chi

Brandon Krieger
www.BrandonKrieger.com

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Do You Have Unlimiting Beliefs

Good Morning Everyone,

First let me say thank you to all my family and friends who have been amazing in helping me through this transition period. Change is never easy but if you embrace the change, good things will come.

Today I would like to thank Nikki Hayes who sent me this video of Kyle Cease this morning. As I was saying in yesterday’s post, I was listening to Tony Robbins yesterday and this was just another reminder.

This just goes to show that we all can have limiting beliefs if we chose too. Damn mine came up over the last week like tornado. Or we could have unlimiting beliefs to achieve whatever we want in life. All you have to do is ask the right questions and then put action towards it.

What questions are you asking today to work on your unlimiting beliefs?

Now here is a question I want to ask you. Have you ever really listened to that voice in your head when you ask these questions? Have you take actions on the recommendations?

Here are my questions:

  •  What do I need to do today to make more money?
  • What do I need to do to book more Paid Social Marketing Professional Speaking Gigs?
  • What do I need to do to consult with more businesses on Social Marketing?
  • What do I need to do to have more one on one coaching clients?

What are your questions? I would love to hear them.

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Love & Chi

Brandon Krieger
www.BrandonKrieger.com

Motivational Quote  “Never Never Never Give Up” — Winston Churchill

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Starting Over Again


WOW it has been a rough week for me, everything in my life has been flipped upside down, work, relationships and finances.

Starting over is never easy to do this will be my second time in life where I’ve had to rebuild from scratch.

I want to give you a little history first, most of you don’t know but I dropped out of High School to work full-time. I wasn’t seeing any benefits from school at the time and decided I wanted to start making money. I first started working at McDonald’s full-time and then progressed into working at warehouses doing general labour jobs. I progressed into a manager’s position at a warehouse thanks to a friend of mine and after a few years decided I wanted to work in security as a Security Guard, not IT Security just to clarify. It was a great job and lots of perks but I got married to soon, did it for all the wrong reasons and with in 2 years we were in the process of getting divorced. Through this process I decided I wanted more so I went back to school to become a Network Specialist working in IT. I stayed with that career until my back injury learned an abundant knowledge about Health and Wellness. I decided to become a Holistic Lifestyle Coach and coach people on how to have better wellness Personally, Professionally and Spiritually. From there because of the recession and what people were looking how to use the Social networks I decided to coach people on Social Technologies.

Now you have an idea how I progressed and FYI I did go back and get my High school diploma and I graduated from triOS College to continue my formal education. I don’t stop learning each and every day :-)

We come to the present day which it has happened again, not the married part but my life being flipped up side down again as I mentioned above. Now this is no ones fault and I am not here to point fingers. It is just a hard time for everyone and this is how the situation is affected me.

Since my revenue stream has been taken away, my Social Technologies coaching business has been slow which I think it’s because of the recession among other things.  I have had to look at what I needed to do to bring in revenue because I have to pay the bills.  Trust me it is hard for anyone to have to step back from what you are doing, but to step back to the start by working temp jobs is hard. I had to really fight against my ego and leave it at the door and I know I have to do what it takes, no matter what it is. While going through my first start over I worked as a bouncer as I went through school so I understand the importance of not giving up and doing what it takes.

For now I have decided working with a temp agency would be the direction I will go right now while I work on meetings, interviews and negotiating contracts.

I’m always honest with you guys and hold nothing back… I will tell you it was hard to walk up to the warehouse door this morning at 8am and tell the warehouse manager I was there for work. I am a public speaker, martial artists, and removed huge guys from bars without a second thought. I was pretty nervous and uncomfortable to walk in there to start work, but I put that all aside and went in.

The work I had to do today was general labour clean up; here is a picture below of the main area prior to cleaning it  

What you kind of see in front of the broom is raised cement which my job today was to level out the floor.  Using a hammer drill and there were 4 rows of this type of cement raised.  I had to clean everything up, break down the cement and then clean up again.

Before I got started I was able to meet some of the guys who worked at this job and wow it was a humbling experience. Asking a question as simple as “How long have you guys all worked here” created a conversation which I felt in AHH! over. There where engineers, medical professionals…etc. that we’re all working at this warehouse for 15 years+ for one reason or another. In my head I was thinking WOW the dedication these guys have and loyalty to work this long with a company with their expertise.  They were all amazing guys and so helpful, just easy going and loved what they did. Who am I to come in and complain about the challenges I am going through.

Now back to work, I brought my iPhone which has Tony Robbins Personal Power II series on it. I was able to listen too my MP3′s while I was working, this was another humbling experience.  Listening to 7 hours of Tony Robbins really broke down my life, what my challenges are and how I relate to them. It is easier to look at other peoples challenges and see what is going on vs. looking at your own especially when you are in the heat of everything. Thanks to my Grandmother she taught me to keep pushing to never give up, to be open to help and listen. Which I listened to every word that Tony Robbins had to say and Wow. Realizing I’m not in the life I want, not living with passion and letting my F.E.A.R.’s get the best of me really opened my eyes.

Tony says over and over again

  • you have to really feel the pain of where you are because we move towards pleasure and away from pain.
  • Then you have to want to change.
  • Have an emotional investment.
  • Then decide.
  • Then consistent actions and learning by doing.

At the start of this morning I was thinking; am I going to make it? How am I going to pay my bills? Do I still want to be a Coach?

After meeting those great guys today, listening to Tony Robbins I realized everything that has happened is just the past and what I have learned from this is:

1) I’m not financially independent like I have been in my past, which is my responsibility.

2) I was reliant on someone else

3) I didn’t really think of what I needed for myself and take responsibility of making it happen

4) I’m not happy!

I really connected to what has happened and realized this change is actually very good for me, it’s like a fresh start but I have a lot of work ahead of me.

I need to build up some revenue first and for most, to be able to take care of my expenses and having fun while doing it. Then I am going to keep doing what I love which is Coaching people. Tony Robbins stated in his audio’s we are no different from him. He just understands what he has to do, then does it.  Which reminds me of the book “Think and Grow Rich” where you read the stories of hardships and how these amazing people went through such challenges but they never gave up. They understood their dream, kept with it no matter what anyone said and achieved it.

My dream is to be a Social Technologies coach combined with my Holistic Lifestyle Coaching background and teach, present, consult to people my Keeping Network & Success Simple principals.  This has never changed and is the legacy I would like to leave behind.

That’s why my goal is this

1) Work contracts with Entrepreneurs and Businesses, consulting on Social Marketing and Social Technologies.

2) Build up my financial stability again

3) Start working with the people I am in business with to help grow our businesses through  Social Marketing, Professional Speaking and Social Technologies Coaching.

P.S. if you have read my previous blog posts you will know I always like working with people to help everyone grow vs. doing it on my own. That is why I am looking for people/businesses to partner up with.

Have you ever had to start over again?

Are you going through a transition this year?

Are you living your dream right now?

I would love to hear your feed back.

Love & Chi,

Brandon Krieger
www.BrandonKrieger.com

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Social Marketing Assessment Special!

I first want to apologize to everyone I don’t like to pitch or promote sales but I have been having several of people send me posts, questions…etc asking to work with me but when I tell them how much I charge they are not able to do it. Most of them because they are just starting out in their New Business venture.

It has got to the point I feel bad, I really want to help them. Which I have decided I have a few spots open that I can take on no more then 5 people at a very discounted rate. Where I will provide them the same Social Marketing Assessment I do for my business clients.

If you know anyone that has mentioned they would like help with their Social Marketing and just wants to know what to do. Tell them about this promotion if there is more then 5 people that need help I will work with my team to open up more spots. If you know me, you will know that my goal is to help as many people as I can this year.

CLICK HERE

Again I want to apologize for you readers that know that I don’t normally promote I just feel bad because our economy is not doing well and so many people just need a foundation for their Social Marketing that would really launch their business.

 

If you know anyone that would would like help please share this post with them.

I wish you all the best

Love & Chi,

Brandon Krieger
www.BrandonKrieger.com

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Free Style Friday Business 101 With Brandon Krieger

Free Style Friday Business 101 with Brandon Krieger

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Love & Chi,

Brandon “The Twitter Doctor” Krieger HLC, ITIL, PPS

Social Technologies Coach, Holistic Lifestyle Coach & Professional Speaker

For more information contact me at info@knssconsulting.com or visit us at www.BrandonKrieger.com

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The Secrets To Growing Your Twitter Community

The Secrets to Growing Your Twitter Community

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Love & Chi,

Brandon “The Twitter Doctor” Krieger HLC, ITIL, PPS

Social Technologies Coach, Holistic Lifestyle Coach & Professional Speaker

For more information contact me at info@knssconsulting.com or visit us at www.BrandonKrieger.com

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How to Achieve Business Success….

Good Afternoon Everyone.

I’m having an interesting morning, woke up to this morning with the smell of ribs cooking in my slow cooker for my family Boxing Day party at 2pm today.

While sitting here I have been reading a few Facebook posts and articles.

One that really stuck out was the one from David Ledoux and he was writing about a business proposal he would like to submit to Dana White click here to read more.

This got me thinking about exactly what David was saying, how many of us have ideas that we are sitting on, that we haven’t put into action?

I know one of my core values I have learned and put into practice was this key tip which I want to give to you today, “Speed of Implementation”.

Whenever I had an idea in the past I would let it sit, think about it and then eventually 90% of my ideas I would do nothing with. Now since living by the “Speed of Implementation” I’ve seen so much more success and nothing has held me back from going for what I believe in. Getting interviews on Radio shows, working with amazing business’s and entrepreneurs, there has been so many great opportunities which have developed.

What business ideas do you have on the burner that you haven’t implemented?

Here is an accountability exercise for you; comment below with 3 of your best ideas just something short doesn’t have to be the full idea for example:

“Write my book on The Benefits on Twitter”

“Meet with…”

“Create Goal Setting Coaching Program”

Put your Twitter ID beside your comment and I will also Tweet it out so that everyone knows you are working on the business idea you post. This way there is no procrastinating you idea is out there and people who are interested will be waiting to hear how it’s going.

Don’t forget to comment below this article.

Love & Chi

Brandon Krieger

www.BrandonKrieger.com 

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Twitter is Dead…. Really!

You would be surprised at how many people tell me I don’t understand, no one is using Twitter anymore. Twitter is a dead tool; I need to move on to Facebook and/or Google Plus.

How many of you heard this from other professionals? Some person who is trying to teach you on what the trends are?

I’ll be completely honest with you guys like I always am. I really want to say to these people… “If you are having problems with using Twitter as a Social Networking tool all you have to do is ask for help, you don’t need to slam me for being able to use it properly”. That is what I would like to say, but I’m patient and listen to what they have to say. I ask them if they would like to learn how to use Twitter like I do to build my community? Do you know what happens? 98% of these people say NO they are fine. The other 2% of them say they will try it for a bit and give up because they still use the same thinking to try to build their followers but now use different tools, gimmicks…etc Be it trying to automate their posts, gorilla market by sending out numerous amounts of posts per day..etc.

Try This: If you are having problems with Twitter and really don’t understand what I am talking about I would like you to try this below and I want to know how it goes. Seriously! If you want to learn how to use Twitter properly do this task below and let me know what happens.

First I want you to write down 10 marketing comments that you feel are relevant to marketing your business through Twitter and I will give you a few examples to show you and you can make up the rest.

1)       Learn how to make an extra $1,000 this week “click here

2)      Want to have clients knocking on your front door “click here

3)      I have the top 10 Secrets to building your business “click here

…etc you can fill in the rest.

Here is what I want you to do, once you make the list of 10 comments trying to keep it to 140 characters I want you to exchange ““click here to “call me back – 111-111-1111” and put your phone number they can call you back on.

Now I want you to call someone you kind of know but not really well and do this

1)       Call them and if they answer or not just say one of the comments fully

-          “Learn how to make an extra $1,000 this week call me back – 111-111-1111”

Then hang up, don’t let them respond.

2)      If they call back don’t answer their phone call let it go to voice mail

3)      Then in 15 min have another comment ready and then call them back

-          “Want to have clients knocking on your front door call me back – 111-111-1111”

Then hang up on them again, don’t let them respond.

By now you should be getting the point, if you don’t repeat this a few more times.

Most people would be annoyed and eventually tell you to stop calling them, I know I would.  The point here is this; we think that because we only have 140 characters we have to jam a sales pitch into this small post. Which is not how we talk to people in our normal day, why would we do it because we only have 140 characters? We shouldn’t, that’s the point. There is no difference how we need to relate to people online or offline and this key fact is why people fail at using Twitter. A lot of people are joining Twitter because they understand it’s a great Social Networking tool to meet new people, but they stop talking to people and start throwing out comments hoping someone is listening. As the “Try This” home work shows above, you will find that it doesn’t connect to people and only frustrates them.

Let’s throw out some really useless stats that people think matter.  Which I will explain why I say they don’t matter.

#tweets

  • 3 years, 2 months and 1 day. The time it took from the first Tweet to the billionth Tweet.
  • 1 week. The time it now takes for users to send a billion Tweets.
  • 50 million. The average number of Tweets people sent per day, one year ago.
  • 140 million. The average number of Tweets people sent per day, in the last month.
  • 177 million. Tweets sent on March 11, 2011.
  • 456. Tweets per second (TPS) when Michael Jackson died on June 25, 2009 (a record at that time).
  • 6,939. Current TPS record, set 4 seconds after midnight in Japan on New Year’s Day.


#accounts

  • 572,000. Number of new accounts created on March 12, 2011.
  • 460,000. Average number of new accounts per day over the last month.
  • 182%. Increase in number of mobile users over the past year.

All from http://blog.twitter.com/2011/03/numbers.html  which you can see for yourself.

Why these stats really don’t matter… no matter how many people are following you on Twitter or if you are in a local meeting of 15 people. If you don’t know how to build a friendship with someone it wouldn’t matter!

I know this is a little harsh but I really want to point this out because this is the difference of you working with your community and building “Business Friendships” that help each other and to be honest each of you see monetary rewards if done properly  vs. you pitching your product/service on these social networking tools and getting frustrated because no one is buying, just like your home work above. Trust me, I have been talking to Internet Marketers who are still pitching and selling, which they are feeling the crunch. I have talked to a lot of successful Internet Marketers who have changed their way of doing business and they are seeing the rewards very quickly.  This goes for any entrepreneur out there, social networking is about socializing.  The one who is getting the most business is not the one who has the best sales pitch. It’s the ones who are liked and have taken a true interest in their community.

To give you an idea of how it has helped me in this week alone.

I met Steve Huber from www.RealRadio.ca  Twitter ID is @RealRadiodotca we had a quick introduction on Twitter and exchanged contact information. We chatted on the phone the next day seeing how we could help each other out and what we’re both working on. After  a great conversation with Steve and discussing some amazing ideas, I have an interview with Steve next week and we have some plans on how to work together after the interview.  His listener base is 80,000+ and growing.

That is just the “Business Friend” I made this week. This happens all the time on Twitter because I am not using it as a selling forum. I am using the Twitter tool for what it was intended for, to be able to meet people all over the world. From there we chat as friends, get to know each other. If there is something we can help each other out with in our respective business then we will chat and see. If they need a service that I might know someone I will refer them to that contact of mine. Just like I would do with any of my friends.

I think of Twitter as my big community of friends, just because they are on Twitter it makes no difference to me. When I meet new people I ask them questions I would ask a person I would meet at a wedding or other non business social gathering. I get to know them and see how the friendship grows from there.

This is how my community on Twitter has grown so fast and I have been lucky enough to meet some amazing people who I have been blessed to now work with.

This doesn’t happen overnight and trust me it has to be a core value of yours to get to know people instead of trying to work an angle to make money.  My core value is to meet people, build up a friendship and then see where it goes from there.

Here is exactly what I do so you can do it for yourself

When I connect with someone I initially do some research on them if they have a blog, website, facebook page…etc whatever link they have put up on their Twitter bio. This way I can learn more about them. If they don’t I just ask them if they could tell me a little bit about themselves.

Then I ask them about what they are up too, what their plans are for the week/weekend depending where we are in the week. If they want to talk about their website or even their business if that is what they are promoting on Twitter I ask them questions about that. Then I continue the conversation in whatever direction they would like. If they want to talk about their business, what they are up to, a vacation they just took…etc. I listen and am very intrigued because to be honest it is awesome to meet new people and learn from them. Be it great places to stay when vacationing in different parts of the world to amazing business tips they have.

I take the time to learn and be present with the people I meet. If I can provide some insight or golden nuggets I will, but at the end of the day it is about building that friendship.

In my opinion Twitter is not dead; if you know how to use it as a Social Networking tool you will meet some amazing people. I know I do.

Love & Chi

Brandon Krieger

www.BrandonKrieger.com 

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The Good Life…

Yesterday Carolyn Zepf and I were invited to be guest speakers at a GoodLife training session with 150 Personal Trainer attending.  I want to talk about what we covered and then how it relates to all entrepreneurs, business people, energy workers…etc.

It was a fun session, lots of great trainers who are motivated to help their clients and keep developing to become better trainers.  Which is such an honour to be able help these professionals of all levels of knowledge and expertise.

The talk was mostly about continuing their education through courses, reading, watching video’s…etc. Plus we talked about how important it is to build a team of professionals that you can work with. How working with experts in different professions can really help the learning curve in nutrition, rehabilitation, energy workers…etc.

We did cover a little bit about Niche Marketing but we didn’t have a lot of time because they had so much more great information to cover from other speakers.

In this post I want to go over the Business partnership and really show how important it is to understand when you are in business.

Business Friendships

Over the years I have heard all different terms of working with other people, be it “Joint Venturing”, “Business Partners”…etc. Which in my mind it divides the relationship to just business, we don’t really use these titles with the intent to being entirely invested. There is a slight reservation of fully being invested personally to the business partnership. I find that people have a F.E.A.R. of being all in to the relationship so they don’t say what is on their mind. Now there could be different reasons for this; they are working on other projects separate from this business partnership, they don’t feel they can trust the person they are working with but want to see if there is a way to make money…etc. There are numerous of reasons why people don’t fully invest themselves into business partnerships which is completely understandable.

Here are the top reasons I feel why business partnerships fail

  1. The business is focused on making money first and not about helping people. Where one business partner(s) understand this key principal of helping people must be first, but the other person is only focused on making money and doesn’t care about helping people. The relationship start to struggle and the business starts to be affected
  2. Communication – people have an underlining F.E.A.R. that if they speak up they might cause issues and the business could be affected or…
  3.  Expectations are not set from the start of the business partnership. This causes turmoil later when people feel they are not being heard, they want certain things and they feel they are not being treated fairly.

There are many more I am sure, I just feel they are the top 3 that deal directly with the business relationship.

Having had the opportunity to coach people worldwide and take courses from numerous amounts of experts I heard a term that came up when relating to people when you decide to work with them. Eban Pagan called it “Business Friendships”, which at the time I felt I understood and connected with the term. It really hit me when I started to assess my own Business Friendships. When I looked through at myself and the people I was working with:  how I was relating to them; how I was holding them back and keeping them at arms length; and how I could see a lot of my actions were causing challenges in the business itself. That’s when a light turned on and I realized a simple analogy for me, relationships of any kind, dating, friendships, business are all just relationships. There is a courting period, I would have to communicate my expectation, have respect for myself and the person I was building that relationship with. Be compassionate, caring, really listen to what they wanted and needed for us to grow.

Once I started to really incorporate this concept into my Business Friendships, sadly a few relationships, business and personal were broken because they weren’t healthy. What was amazing was my new relationships both older ones and brand new ones were so much stronger. The growth was even faster then what anyone expected.

That is why I write this post today because I know there are a lot of people that are working with several people in their business: business partners, referral network, suppliers, distribution, be it co-workers, …etc. Whatever they maybe they are all still relationships.

When you work on building a strong Business Friendships with them both relationships will grow, personal and professional. Which will make it so much easier to grow.

Here are some tips on how to set your relationship up from the start and go in with the right foundation.

  1.  Make sure you know what you are looking for in a business friendship
  2.  Have your core expectations already set so that you can communicate what you need
  3.  Listen with understanding and compassion
  4.  If the relationship doesn’t fit with what you are looking for be honest and tell them. They might surprise you
  5.  Most important make sure it is FUN! Nothing worse then going into a relationship that it is all work and no play

These tips can be implemented if you are a Personal trainer working with a clinic, online marketer working with other online marketer, Energy healer working other light workers, the list goes on and on. They are all just relationships.

With all the changes that are happening I believe we need to start coming together to help each other out. No more competition, comparing ourselves to others for an illusion of success. In reality we can all be successful in what we do there is so much abundance for all of us we just have to learn how to work with each other.

You guys are my Business Friends and my goal is to keep providing articles like these ones.  What I ask is if you could do me a favour and share my articles in your Social Networks, which I hope will help you and your Business Friends achieve success Personally, Professionally and Spiritually.

Love & Chi

Brandon Krieger

www.BrandonKrieger.com 

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The Truth about Business…

I have been thinking about how Business works for a long time now. Due to the changes that are happening I am going to give my insight of what I have learned over my journey in business. As well, how you can change your business preparing for the New Paradigm shift. This post is not going to be about large corporations because I believe there is going to be a shift in Big Business as we know it.  It is more for the self-employed entrepreneurs.

The History

I will give you a little glimpse into my work and business history, so you can see I have had many different experiences bringing me to where I am now. You can scroll down past this part to “The Truth” section if you don’t need to know my history.

My work history in the corporate world started when I was 14yrs old. I was working at a McDonald’s restaurant to make money to be able afford to go out with the boys; buy the clothes I wanted…etc. I was having a great time by learning customer service, policies/procedures and working with clients. I saw that the corporate model was very hard to be in because it was very structured and if you went against it you would be fired. I loved the pay off; I was able to get what I felt I needed so I never challenged what I was told for the F.E.A.R. I would be fired. It also started to show me the difference of the haves and have not’s and I wanted to be a have. So I decided to work harder, longer hours took extra shifts which meant I would receive more money that I could buy more things.

I wasn’t truly happy and eventually I became greedy to the point I got fired from McDonald’s. I didn’t steal money, I took food without paying for it which again was stupid, and I understand this happens when you start getting what people call a “God Complex” when you don’t have a deeper value and/or appreciation. I want to clarify this was all me, had nothing to do with my upbringing, the way my Grandmother raised me. It had to do with me not appreciating the value of money and the energy around it. Listening to my negative ego that I heard “it was ok to take the food, you’re their golden boy, you work extra hours, and you could do no wrong”. I took a 24 pack of Chicken nuggets and went and sat in the restaurant and ate them. Not the smartest thing to do right. Needless to say they saw me and I was fired. This was a great lesson at an early age which I never forget.

After that I moved up into better paying jobs, first starting to work warehousing as a shipper/receiver. Then I was lucky enough that I was offered a position as an Assistant Warehouse Manager at 19yrs of age from my Martial Arts Instructor at the time. He was amazing; he taught me a lot about managing, working with staff and how to run a warehouse. The challenge was as soon as he stopped working for the company the system changed which then opened the doors to what was really going on. I found out my previous manager was protecting us from a lot of the corporate politics so we could do our work and be happy. Once he left we were now fully exposed to the corporate information and all the battles he was dealing with.  Eventually the Management decided they wanted to go with a distribution plant and laid us all off. Another great lesson…

At the same time this was all happening I was working Event Security part-time again to make more money. Due to the layoff I took this career to another level to make even more money working as a Fulltime Security Officer at The Skydome now called the Rogers Center. Great job, got to meet a lot of amazing people, see events…etc Again some politics but nothing I haven’t seen before until I decided to go back to school. I worked out with my Security director at the time that I would switch shifts with another Security Officer on another shift so I could go back to school to become a Network Engineer. Which at the time it was  the year 2000 to 2001 where people were making $60K and above just after taking a few courses and I was making about $29,000 a year. So you could see why I wanted to go back.

I was approved, got OSAP (Ontario Student Loan) for my tuition, than paid 80% of the entire tuition which was nonrefundable. At the time the only schools that just had Networking courses were private school no University and/or College had in depth networking training. That is why I had to go to a private school and pay a boat load of money up front. So my tuition was paid, I was ready to go when  all of a sudden I got pulled into my Security directors office and told that she now couldn’t approve the shift changes and I couldn’t go back to school. Well you could understand I was pissed, I confirmed everything with her prior to putting down my 80% nonrefundable deposit. There was no valid reason she provided except she couldn’t approve the shift changes and me going back to school because it wouldn’t work out. Strange how the other security officer and I both agreed to a schedule change, had it all drawn out so it would work. But the director said it wouldn’t work and there was no explanation. This was my first experience of being held back for the greater good of the Business.  Needless to say I quit that week and went to school; I made the decision at that time that no one was going to hold my fate in their hands except me.

It was a hard decision but worth it because I was able to get contracts that pay $18hr, than $25hr+, up to $38hr+ after a few short years being out of school. Now being able to get contracts $200/hr+ but there is more to that. Back to the few years after school, I was working full-time hours and making double what I made at the SkyDome. I was able to buy what I wanted, computers, electronics, travel and live the lifestyle that I felt I deserved. In my mind I was living the dream. But the dream was too good to be true.

When I was working contracts I had my own company and was consulting for Corporations not part of the policies and procedures, just whatever my contract agreed upon. Then one of my contracts was with the Ontario Government which gave me the option to go full-time. This was a hard decision because the mainstream thinking is get a job with the Government and you are secure for life. But my income would be cut in half, I would receive health benefits and work towards a pension plan. The big selling point which I shouldn’t have listened to was “Job Security”. There were a few challenges I was going through in my life at that time, the word around was that contract work was starting to slow down and I was told that I really didn’t have a choice if I wanted to keep working for the Ontario Government. I had to switch from Contract to Full-time status.  So I felt I needed job security so I decided to apply for the position I was already doing. I knew the position inside and out as well the managers liked me at the time, which made it easy to win out against other applicants. Once working there full-time nothing really changed, but slowly there were transitions, rotations of positions, meetings after meetings about meetings. Now I was in the business part of the Ontario Government seeing a glimpse of the inside again, still being shielded by my manager of what is really going on. My Managers were great at the Ontario Government don’t get me wrong it was the system that started to get to me.

I was a Desktop support person who would go around help people with their computer issues. No big challenge, but then the projects started to come out, upgrades, application changes…etc. Which we had meetings on top of meetings about these projects. Then I started to see the territorial and power control come out, not going into details due to confidentiality I started to see  easy to fix challenges be escalated. Not because the resources weren’t there to fix the issue but because the people running the projects wanted control, fixed times, approval from everyone under the sun even people who weren’t part of the project.

In my personal beliefs these were easy fixes and the personal politics did not need to hinder productivity like this.  This became way too much for me so I decided to take stress leave and eventually for my health I quit the Ontario Government. Which taught me there is a lot of time, money spent on internal process and people that can be saved if the ego is left at the door before coming into meetings to make decisions.

Now since I give you a little history enough to show you I have worked on different levels of business from being an employee, Assistant Manager, running my own business, to working for one of the big Corporations not to running my own business again.

The Truth

For you Analytical mind type people who might have read a little bit of the history I am sure you are thinking. That was a waste of time.  What I’m going to say to you next is probably going to be even harder for you to hear.

Business as we know it is changing, it is grumbling at our feet. We are seeing the financial repercussions of it right now, the recession and yes I will say it the depression we are in. People are still losing their jobs and looking for means to survive. A lot of people are transitioning to Home Base Business which I will talk about below.  You can see people are just not happy, they would have stuck it out because they had some sort of reasoning to do so, “the company has a good retirement package”, “I wouldn’t get paid this good at other companies at this time”, “I have to look after my family”…etc. Whatever the reasoning was, has been taken away from 10′s of thousands of people if not millions of people in a blink of an eye when they and/or  people around them started to get laid off. The illusion of job security went out the door.

Now that illusion of “Job Security” we all thought that we had and of course the Corporations wanted you to feel safe, to spend money that wasn’t yours like; Loans for cars, houses…etc. Then feel safe because you had a job that would pay for your loans so you could have nice things. But then BANG! The banks started to call in their loans, increase interest rates and people weren’t able to pay for their Zero down homes, so houses started to foreclose. Companies in turn started to lose money and when that happens Corporations start letting people go so they can save on the cost of employee’s. This takes away peoples sense of value, their security of what they thought they had and now people were and are in a scarcity situation. What do they do! Most people had unemployment, received a settlement package but what you have seen is the unemployment rate is so high people were out of work for 6 months to a year, if not longer. They used up all their reserves…etc Welcome to today’s society.

This is important to know when it comes to psychology and I am not a Dr. and need you to keep an open mind about this.  Just read it this over and you will see that I am telling you the truth.

When you build someone up with certain expectation, giving them goals and providing rewards we will call  “Salary”. People internally feel confident, comfortable in their current living standards and build up a loyalty to the process. When they keep seeing rewards this way they will be more apt to do what is asked from them, plus like me they will push the limits of their finances. By purchasing things they think they can afford because this “Salary” will pay it over time. When this process is taken away from them they just don’t lose the job, they lose the reward that is paying for their lifestyle, their homes, cars…etc. Which then they lose their sense of self and start feeling depressed, worthless…etc. I have personally been there and do coach people who have gone through this as well. It is not a great place to have your life flipped upside down because you and I have done it too. We have invested our control into a Corporation and this illusion that you have an abundance of wealth coming from them so you can spend past your realistic means.

I am not talking from just my own personal beliefs.  This process I call “Control” which if you look at a lot of the Corporations this is exactly the process they provide. This starts in school you are taught to follow direction and when you do you are rewarded. Don’t talk out of line, listen to the teacher and when you are asked a question and answer it right and you will be rewarded. Then you are ranked by grades against the other classmates to start creating a competitive nature. This is for another article but look around you right now. Do you not see that in your work and how you relate to people, how you feel when someone tells you that person is better than you? Don’t you feel competitive? Be honest… I’ve been there myself, especially when I was working contracts in my early years. When I heard another contractor was doing the same work as me and was making $3 more per hour I was pissed.

This is no different from what people are going through in corporate environments. The only difference from school to now is the rewards are higher.  As we grow up we do more work so we expect a bigger reward. With those rewards we purchase bigger ticket items; cars, clothes, house(s)…etc.  Now we need to get more reward “Salary” to be able to pay for everything so we will work harder. See the vicious cycle?

To be honest with you the policies, processes of corporations are just to keep people in line because and I have been there, you don’t want to go against the business because this is where you are receiving your “Rewards”. So you do what you are told, don’t ask questions because you are scared you will be taken out of the process and you will lose everything. They called it “Being Fired”. See how this process controls people and keeps them in line.

People have been seeing this process, I am sure you’re seeing more and more people who are realizing it. That is why you are seeing more people going to MLM companies, Direct Marketing, Home Base business’s, opening their own business..etc. These Home base businesses have been around for years but you are seeing more and more people deciding they have had enough. A few are doing both Corporate and Home Base business at the same time because they want to make sure they don’t take a financial hit which is completely understandable. Like I said you are seeing more and more. When Social Technologies came out these businesses are more mainstream because everyone’s business is online now. Their sales/marketing campaigns are being frequently posted on most social networks. We are being overwhelmed by this type of marketing which is why people are getting frustrated. Both the people working the business and on the other side people who are receiving their posts. The business people are working so hard to get their products/services out on the internet and finding that people are not buying as quickly as they expected. Then these business people come to a conclusion that their business and the Social networking doesn’t work, so they decide to try something else. This is where you will see people jumping from business opportunity to business opportunity, paying $1,000′s of dollars in courses trying to learn how to sell better, do better video, attract more people…etc

They are all good skills to learn but that is not the “NEW Business Paradigm”.  When you understand the new business paradigm you will have more clients than you can work with, you will help not only your client but also your perceived competition which I now call my business friends. There will be no competition and everyone will have an abundant lifestyle, clients will get what they need and everyone will be happy.

First let’s talk about the energy exchange so you really understand how business works on a fundamental level.

Most business’s that you work for looks like this below. The business gets large energy rewards, money, control…etc. You receive very little in true benefits; this is where control takes place. If the business takes the little rewards that you are making then you lose everything like mentioned before.  You might be putting in consistent energy and sometimes a lot of your own personal energy but realistically you are getting very little in return.

When people break out of the above model they normally go into this energy shift and you will find this happens with a lot of holistic practitioners. They go into a mindset that they have to give so much and they receive little in return from their own personal business. They charge very little, they do service really for free, which they feel they are giving back. To be honest this is not the case; they are using all their energy, health, wellness…etc from themselves and draining themselves. To the point they get stressed, give up and even get sick. When the truth is they are amazing people just don’t know how to work with the energy of their business. When the learn how to work with the energy of the business they can take care of themselves and they have lots of energy to give back. That is why the image below you can see that these types of business people use so much of their energy working so hard but get little from their business in return. The business generates very little energy “Money” which makes the person work harder to try to try to get more from the business. This cycle keeps continuing until eventually something gives. Be it the person can’t do it anymore, get sick…etc. Here is what it looks like

With the New Business Paradigm, business and personal energy is equal. The energy you give is the energy you get back to help both keep the energy flowing. When this is working optimally you will see growth, abundance of time and money. Now this is not easy to do it takes proper planning, laying down the foundation and most importantly getting rid of the Negative Ego holding you back. Telling you that there are things you can and cannot do. You might have to do a lot of work at first but if you do it properly the energy will come in and keep you going, as the business grows you will be supported in turn. Which will give you more abundance so you can do more with it.

I know the image is not to scale because I drew it by hand but you can see that the energy is somewhat equal. We are not working more than what our business is giving back. The business has equal energy to us and each is balanced.

Now most of you are asking probably at this point that is all great and all but how do I do that.  Sorry Business coaches, Lifestyle coaches…etc. This information I am providing would honestly cost you $1,000′s of dollars in coaching depending how quickly you are able to learn it and apply it.

Build a Business Plan

Just like a house you have to build the foundation first. Make sure you have a detailed business plan that you will refer back to. First it should be a weekly review for the first 6 months. Then once a month for the next 6 months, after that quarterly is fine to review. This is important because it makes sure you are on track. Business Plans are a whole other beast in its own, if you don’t know how to do one. Here is a quick Tip find someone who is successful in your niche business. Ask them if you could meet with them because you would like to open up the same type of business. Of course be respectful, this might take several e-mails/calls to different companies but I know someone will help you. Then ask them if they wouldn’t mind if you could have a copy of their template of their business plan. You don’t want their confidential information just the layout of how they did their business plan. Companies normally will not give you their numbers and specific details which we have to respect their privacy. All you would like is the template for you to have something to work from and fill out for your business plan.

Time management 

1 hour a day Monday to Friday checking e-mails, social sites, responding back to people. You don’t need to be on these sites longer than that.

1 to 2 hours providing educational information, articles, video’s …etc whatever you feel comfortable with. With the Social Technologies Marketing has never been easier to get your message in front of millions of people.

IMPORTANT! Do not pitch or sell in these educational posts. The goal is to help people first, then provide knowledge about you again not selling and last how to contact you if they need more information. When people get to know and like you. They will develop trust in you which if they need your product/service they will want to work with you. But this takes time and consistency. Think of it like dating you’re not going to want to sleep with someone on the first date; you normally want to get to know the person develop a trust with them. Then the relationship will develop. This is no different in business, which is why we need to be loving and caring. Not a 17 year old teenager trying to get laid when it comes to business.

Now if you coach clients here is another Tip which I had to learn the hard way. Take your time while talking to people, be supportive, answer questions to a POINT and when you feel this should be a session with you be honest with them. If they can’t do it for whatever reason, thank them for their time and let them know if they would like to have a session with you give you a call anytime. This way you are not giving all your energy away and they have an understanding that your time and energy is valuable.  If they can’t afford to sit with you have resources available for them. For example I have this blog, my YouTube Channel…etc where people can still get information to help them. Remember the first goal is to help people as best as you can, making sure there is a balance in energy.

Hours of Operation

Now when it comes to office hours I can’t provide you information on that because each person’s situation is different. That is more a personal preference. But I would say this, make sure you don’t work past 7pm at night if you can, this way you can spend time relaxing, recharging and getting to bed around 10:30pm.

Money

This is a hard one for a lot of people and it is hard to sit down with someone at first and say “To sit down with me will be $100 per session”. Then sitting there hoping they will say yes. When they don’t say “Yes” you feel terrible, then you start to question yourself, is your rate too high, did you not sell yourself properly…etc. I have been there and here is how I over came it.

First write down your expenses per month

Rent/Mortgage

Car expenses

Food

Clothes

…etc

Here is a sample of an MS Excel 2007 Template how to figure out your hourly rate.  I want to give you a few parameters so you know how I figured this out.

To get a copy of the MS Excel Sheet click here—>  Template for hourly rate

Here is a break down of the formulas

In the Expenses area

-Weeks are divided by 4 weeks per month.

-The day expenses are divided by 5 working days per week.

-The Hourly rate is divided by 6 working hours per day.

-I provided examples of rates per hour, per day, per week, per month. The year income equation was multiplied the week salary by 48 weeks in the year. This gives you 4 weeks off per year for vacation, training, sick days…etc.

I also added a savings in the row to show you that you must also calculate this into your hourly rate.

This gives you what I call the floor rate, once you have figured this out for all your expenses and costs. You should never ever and I mean never go below your floor rate. If you do then as explained before you are just using your energy.

Once you calculate everything out it might seem a little over whelming at first to try to figure out how you can do this. I know I have been there when I did mine but I will be honest with you it is possible it just takes time, patience and consistent action.

When I stopped chasing money and started truly helping people there was no question about how much my rate was, it was more “when can we start working together”. The reason for that was because people knew my first goal was to help them and the exchange for that was payment so I can help them more. That is why I don’t pitch or sell I answer peoples questions and provide education. Even in a consult with a potential client I ask them about them, answer any questions they might have and then ask them would they like a session. If they can’t for whatever reason I ask if they would like some more resources to give them more information. If they say yes I tell them my rates and we get started.

I know this was a long one and I hope you got a lot out from it.

All I ask in exchange is you share all my posts through your Social sites. This way you help me with my goal which is to help as many people as I can through the 2012 transition.

Love & Chi,

Brandon Krieger

www.BrandonKrieger.com 

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2012 Resolutions and Goal Setting…

Happy

Everyone!

I hope everyone had a great New Year’s Eve night and has started off 2012 with a lot of motivation and goals in mind. I would love to hear what your goals are for 2012, so please comment below or where you see this post.

Today I want to explore Resolutions and Setting Goals because I see a lot of people commenting on “How to Set Goals” for 2012 but there are certain things I want to clear up that I feel you need to know.

First let’s start off with the “S.M.A.R.T” principal of setting goals, I will give you examples to clarify and what each letter stands for.

Specific - for example if you wanted to lose weight you’re not going to say “I want to lose lots of weight for 2012″. That wouldn’t be specific enough. You would say “I have lost 20lbs…” I will go into why I said have lost vs. will lose later but you can see that the specific part is the “20lbs”

Measurable - When you put a specific number, time or action you can see “20lbs” can be measurable. You can weigh yourself which I don’t recommend as a Holistic Practitioner, but for this example you can use weight scales to see how your progression is going. As well if it’s not working you can fix the blocking factor that is hindering you from your goal. Say it’s going out late, eating past 8pm, eating the wrong foods…etc.

Action Orientated- Now you have to put action towards it. For example working out 2 to 3 times a week, joining a training club, running room, martial arts, dancing, hiking depending on the time of the year…etc. Something that is active that will help you lose those “20lbs” and be fun for you.

Realistic - In this example realistic is something you can obtain. For example you’re not going to say “I have lost 20lbs by the end of today”. That is just starving yourself and setting you up to fail. It has to be realistic enough that there wouldn’t be any negative effects while trying to achieve your goal.

Timed - Timed is pretty straight forward, if you want to lose 20lbs in a very healthy way an example would be doing the actions to help you lose 1lb per day. For this example then you set the completion date for 20 days from the day you start. If you can realistically do it faster say 15 days then set that as your completion date.

The entire weight loss goal would look like this “On September 20th I have lost 20lbs, because I continue to hike, dance and do my yoga classes on a consistent basis…”

That is the basic premise of setting goals but I want to add a few tips and changes so that you can see 2012 are a little different.

First when it comes to wording “I will” vs. “I have”, I will is a future concept which means you are always working to achieve it but never achieving it. I have on the other hand means you already have achieved it even though it is not on the physical form. You are thinking that you have accomplished it, which puts a lot of energy behind it. When you think you have achieved something, do the actions on a consistent basis just as if you achieved that goal, you will see results.  For example do the activities like dancing, yoga…etc, eat healthy food, enjoy yourself. All that action and energy the weight will just come off and no dieting is needed and you are just having fun. But remember you have to put the energy out there as if you were that person who is 20lbs less. Not the same energy as a person holding on to 20 extra pounds would be doing, which brings me to my second point.

What energy are you putting in to achieve the results? I will use the example of money because that is always a New Year’s Resolution/Goal for a lot of people. “To Make More Money!”, correct?

I am sure we have all heard this quote

Insanity: ”Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results“. By Albert Einstein

Now think of it in relation to goal setting. You can’t use the same thinking, same energy to accomplish this goal ”To Make More Money!”. You might use the S.M.A.R.T. principals but you still have to look at the energy you are putting in to achieve that goal as well as the value of your energy.

Here is an example, say I want to make $100,000 more this year. I have said enough is enough and created a goal “On December 1, 2012 I have $100,000 in my personal savings by seeing 20 clients per week, 1 professional talk per month and I have sold 2 books”. What do you think of this goal? Seems like it could be achievable? Maybe you sceptics are looking at this saying No you couldn’t do it, that is not realistic to make $100,000 extra per year.

Let me first show you why it wouldn’t be realistic and then I will show you how it is obtainable. This goes for all types of entrepreneurs and business people reading this.

You guys might have realized I am an analytical type person so I’m going to break down the numbers just to show you exactly so there is no guessing. Again sorry Coaches out there this is probably really pissing you off I’m giving a lot of this information away for Free. If I made $60,000 as of December 2011 and now I want to reach my goal of making an extra $100,000 by the end of 2012 which would equal $160,000 that is a huge raise and seems to be an unrealistic correct.

Let’s say my 2011 schedule is this below, to show you if I keep the same thinking and same energy I will fail at achieving my goal for 2012.

In 2011

I charge my Holistic Lifestyle clients $160/hr and saw an average of 6 clients per week $960 x 48 weeks in the year = $46, 000 (rounded off)

I did a few paid talks at $1,000 per talk x 5 talks last year = $5,000

I created a training course which made $2,000 this past year

I separated my Social Technology Coaching clients rate from my Holistic Lifestyle Coaching rates and started charging $200/hr at the end of November because of the energy I was putting in and value = $7,000

= $60,000 in income for last 2011. These numbers are not exact but they give you a idea of the energy I had to put in to receive the $60,000 at the end of the 2011.

This is not saying I didn’t work hard for my $60,000 and I didn’t deserve it. But I had the energy out to give me exactly what my energy return gave me.

If I use this same thinking, same energy to now try to increase my income to achieve $160,000 by December 1, 2012 will this work? The answer is NO!

What most people will do, and I have been there myself is work harder not smarter. In my old mindset I would work to increase my number of client’s to 20 per week, doing more talks per year at $1,000 per talk, try to write more books, teach more courses…etc. and end up burning themselves out. Now I might make $80,000 at the end of 2012 but now I’m stressed, overweight, seeing a therapist because my back is hurting…etc. Not a healthy situation.

I’m going to show you exactly what I would recommend and don’t get me wrong you will have to try this for yourself.

IMPORTANT! Before making any changes. There are some key things I would point out before you change your systems.

Do not change the rates on your existing clients. If you are charging your clients $160 per hour keep them at the same rate while you work on attracting new clients at your newer rate. This way you keep your base income coming in and there is no F.E.A.R. of losing revenue. Any New client will be quoted your new rate of say $200. One of the biggest challenges is that people try to change too quickly and are not prepared. With change comes a transition phase which takes time so through this phase you want to feel comfortable.

Next do not listen to your negative ego which I mentioned before in the article “The Secret’s To Challenges” . Your mind will try to tell you all sorts of things. That is OK, as long as you prepare yourself, do the numbers and then The Proper Actions you will get results. I mentioned the Proper actions because for example if I want to lose weight I don’t go eat Tim Horton’s for breakfast, lunch and dinner and then blame my personal training because I can’t lose 20lbs in 20 days. If you want to make more money you have to do The Proper Actions to achieve this goal. Meeting the right people, joint venturing on products, helping people, being genuine and not making it all about the revenue but truly helping…etc

I am posting an Article tomorrow morning to complement this one which is called “The Truth about Business…” where I do explain in the post how to figure out your hourly rate.

Let’s get back to the How I would plan to achieve my goal of $100,000 extra by December 1st 2012

First I would look at the energy I put out and the energy I get back, lets break that down.

Holistic Lifestyle Coaching = $160/hr

Live Talks = $1,000

Social Technologies Coaching =$200/hr

You can see just on this simple example that right now my Social Technologies Coaching is where I receive a higher energy return for the energy I put out. Talks/seminars require energy to setup, organize and then implement which to be honest last year’s $1,000 per talk was too low for me and I have increased my cost per talk to a $5,000 minimum per talk. Of course depending on the number of people that will be adjusted and the person I am working with. I do favours for my business friends because the energy in return doesn’t always have to be monetary. Again energy out energy in return.

Next is setting up systems that help people automatically that I don’t have to spend my minimum of $160/hr energy with someone if they can’t afford to work with me. Which I do appreciate, I have purchased books, audio’s…etc because I couldn’t sit down for a 60 minute session with Anthony Robbins at $10,000 per hour. I would recommend you use this approach, make it very easy for people to work with you whatever their situation is. To clarify I mean give them resources that people can go to, don’t give away your energy and time. Provide them with resources that they can use e-books, video’s, blogs, online video courses…etc you have setup. This way you work to set it up then you can direct people to these resources.

Here is how all of this looks.

My Social Technologies Coaching/Holistic Lifestyle coaching is now all one rate of $200 per hour. Anytime someone works with me they are getting all of me in each session. multiply that by 10 hours per week x 48 weeks = $96,000

New Talks quote $5,000 x 5 talks per 2012 = $25,000

Create a product/course that people can take online at their own convenience which will help people who might not be able to sit down with me at $200 per hour. This could be an e-book, online video course…etc

Estimated revenue of online products would be $200 a month x 20 people per month x 12 months = $48,000

Grand Total = $169,000 at the end of 2012.

Now the energy I have to put in is a little more at the start by setting up certain systems for example the online training courses but when I am done they will make residual income because I wouldn’t have to spend my time with them. I can focus on working on one on one coaching with clients and talks/seminars. Working with the community to be able to book the talks at $5,000 per . Then because the way I am setting myself up I will have the time so I can focus  on providing the valued education to helping the people I am working directly with.

Important! With your online systems make sure you monitor them at least weekly because as people start to get to know you and you are truly helping people, more people will come to you for help. This is where growth happens and you will see a lot of businesses are not ready for this growth because they never planned for it. Good place to be :-)

Remember with this New 2012 Paradigm anything is possible you just have to know how to work with the energy.

Don’t forget to post your 2012 Goals below.

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Love & Chi,

Brandon

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The Confusion about 2012…

Good morning everyone,

Every morning I wake up with a download of information, ideas are flowing of what I need to write. I believe I know where it’s coming from and feel I need to keep on this journey of articulating what I’m receiving.

Today it was about 2012 and the confusion that is going on with what is really going to happen.

I’m sure there are different levels of people who are reading my posts and I am going to try to address each of them.  I have never laid it out like this before but I am going to do it this way because I feel this will help anyone reading this receive a benefit.

First for the non-believers who think 2012 is just going to be another year and we are going to wake up to go to work. Nothing is going to change and this is all a bunch of Bull Shit! You know what, my analytical mind is with you. I have so many doubts about what is being written, posted, streamed, verbally diarrheaed out that I am having my doubts as well.  If you’re the analytical type, has been at least watching the news and our strange weather patterns. You know something has been changing, could be “Global Warming” or just the planet is shifting…. etc. Whatever that may be I would say be prepared.  Which is the name of the section I have included at the bottom of this post. If you don’t subscribe to all the metaphysical crap, I would recommend just scroll down and get as much as you can on that list. Because say we do have bad weather, the power goes out, at least you are prepared for a bit. Best case scenario is that I am completely wrong and you have some extra canned food to donate to charity for people who need it. Or even better a good camping trip all ready for you to go.  Scroll down now or if you want to learn more read on.

When it comes to the metaphysical information being distributed in the world. There is so much different information about dates, predictions on what is happening and/or what is going to happen. The Mayan Calendar keeps being thrown into the mix. The Apocalypse prophecy of the end of days which if you read it, appears we are heading that way. I am not saying if we are or are not in the end of days, I am not a scientist, a prophet, a psychic… etc. I am just a guy who is seeing a lot of information being articulated with a positive spin but no one is really getting people prepared.

I do agree there is a new energy coming in, things are changing. I cannot deny this simple fact especially with the number of people I connect with on a daily basis. People are feeling it and seeing it at all  different levels. Business people are seeing their business’s changing, their clients are different. The average Jane and John Doe are seeing the change too in their own way. As well the healers, energy workers, light workers… etc, are not just seeing it, they are feeling these changes as well. Some of them who have a higher connection are receiving messages about what is happening and coming to a higher understanding.

Now this is VERY IMPORTANT for my brothers and sisters who are connected like this. Weigh the information you receive, make sure that the information is coming from a higher source then discuss it with others. The reason why I say this and the point of this article is this.  We Holistic people know that change of any kind is hard.  Be it losing weight which we all know you have to change your eating habits and work really hard in a consistent manner over a long period of time.  So you can achieve your goal, hence why it is called “Working out”. Or if you are working on your gifts, you just don’t wake up and bang there they are, then don’t have to do anything to keep them. No you have to consistently work with what you have and be grateful. If you stop, miss a few days, weeks…etc. Then you know you start to lose your gifts. We all know this is true, it takes a lot of dedication and hard work.

The reason why I say this is because the change that is coming up is no different. I have seen/read a lot of light workers, energy workers say amazing positive uplifting things. I have never seen them talk about the Yin to the Yang they are expressing. We all know life is a balancing act of consistent action of 2 different forces. Why are we ignoring this fact and not getting prepared? Or  at least having the conversation.

I will use the analogy of a personal trainer because I’m sure we can all appreciate it.  It’s like you wanting to lose 15lbs and going to see a Personal training for a consult. They tell you they are so excited to meet you, you are such an amazing person with a great goal. They are going to help you lose the 15lbs with no effort at all. All you have to do is think positive, feel good about yourself and come see them a minimum of 2 x per week. Pretty easy right? You think this is awesome and you sign up with them ready to lose those 15lbs. You feel great because you are taking action and excited to come to your first session.  Day one comes and you get up early in the morning because you are so excited, you remember the trainer told you to think positive and feel good about yourself.  You do this all the way to the session.  When you get there the trainer starts to warm you up, tells you about the work out about dynamically warming up, the intense workout you are going to do and you will need to do this for minimum of 30min increasing to 60min sessions each time you are with them.  You go through the workout, start breaking a sweat, your muscles start to hurt ( of course in a good way all you trainers out there) and you are exhausted. You think wow that was hard work, I am tried, exhausted and need a nap.  Now the trainer comes over and tells you now you have to eat a certain way, change all your nutrition, throw out the food you have in your place and go shopping for the new food. The only way you are going to get results is doing exactly what they say.  You think hold on, when I first met the trainer all they said was think positive and feel good about myself. This is all I would need to do to lose weight. But now I have to work out really hard, feel tired, sore, change my entire eating habits, all while thinking positive and feel good about myself. WHAT! That’s a lot of hard work to see change, I thought it would be just positive thinking.

Now that is a basic analogy of what I am hearing about the positive comments. People are saying be connecting to higher self, the light, think positive thoughts, have positive mantras, love the people around you and the earth…etc. This is all good to have that, but there is also the “Hard Work” that needs to be done. Because just like that personal trainer analogy I put you in, if you wanted to lose weight you had to work really hard and make changes.  This is no different in the world we are coming into which if you thought changing your eating habits were hard. Think about changing people’s beliefs on what their purpose is in life. Changing the world economics and how the haves think about money.  Changing how we live our lives each and every day as well how we treat each other. If you don’t think there is going to be hard work and even some resistance you are mistaken.  You can think those positive thoughts and think good about yourself but you are not going to see results. It takes a lot of hard work and having to make huge changes that you might not want to make.

When you look at the people around you do you think they will want to give up their beliefs without a fight? Do you think that if you told them that life is not about self gratitude of making money to survive, but to make money to share and help other people? Do you think they would listen? Do you think the Governments, Big Businesses; Pharmaceutical companies want us to have free will and the choice to make our own decisions? Watch these Movie’s “Thrive” and “Zeitgeist”  to understand the control that some of these systems have on us.  As well to see when I am talking about resistance it might not just be from ourselves but from these other daily influences.  Now I am not saying business is bad I am just saying when there comes change the ones that don’t want us to change will resist. Just like telling a tired 2 year old they have to go to bed and them throwing a temper tantrum. This is no different for the people who don’t want to change.

My entire point to this is be prepared for all the changes weather, economics, people, personal, professional…etc. Make sure you are really connecting with people who are not just telling you all the warm and fuzzy feelings but are also making sure you are ready when there is some resistance to change and what to do.

I believe one of the things we should be preparing for is changes in weather which could cause power outages, no matter where you live. I will be talking about other changes in the New Year as well. If I receive more feedback I will do talks/seminars to help as well, but you have to let me know by commenting below.

Be prepared 

1) Have at least a month’s supply of food in your home to feed your entire family. Yes all you holistic, organic food eating people I am fighting this one as well. I am looking at ways to do what my Grandmother did to preserve certain foods to last longer.

2) 1 to 2 months of drinking water stored up.

3) Warm thermal clothes that will protect you from the cold. Winter hats, boots, gloves, thermal socks, sweaters, long johns…etc Make sure these clothes are truly warm not the latest fashion trend by Tommy Hilfiger. No offence but this is to keep you warm and protect you. Not for you to look good

4) Sleeping bag(s) to keep warm at night

5) An all purpose knife and hunting knife

6) Water proof matches – Pick these up at your local camping store.

7) Candles or Kerosene lamp

8) Emergency plan for family/friends to meet at a designated place if you weren’t together if something was to happen.

9) Update your first aid certifications, good to have just in case.

10) A Nap sack(s) to be able to carry the essentials if you need to.

A book I have picked up is “The Survival Handbook by Peter Darman”.  Which I have thrown in my Emergency nap sack, just in case.

I will be honest with you guys I was fighting this and truly thinking this is all bull shit. But I have seen people going through some hardships, the environment changing, our economy taking a hit and our weather patterns changing.  Which has made me realize I would rather have all this in my place and not having to use any of it vs. the Shit hits the fan and I am struggling to find what I need to keep me comfortable until things pass?

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Love & Chi,

Brandon Krieger

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Happy Holidays and Thank You

Happy Holidays and Thank You!

Happy Holidays Everyone and Thank you so much!

Love & Chi,

Brandon

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The Secret’s to Challenges

It’s 6:30am again and I’ve been thinking about the 2012 energy shift and the challenges people are facing before the New Paradigm Shift. Pretty heavy right?

In the last few months I’ve heard of people going through problems that would put people in psychiatric wards. It’s like everything that’s unresolved is all coming up at one time. For example if they had debt that they just put in the back of their mind and because they just couldn’t deal with it. Recently the creditors decided to call them on a daily basis if not hourly.  Plus that same person would have issues at work, sickness coming on and people who they thought were challenging in their lives now have escalated. Now they are just being terrible to them for no reason.

I’ve also seen a lot of people passing away over the last 6 months. Normally the rule has been of 3′s from what I have found, but recently it has been the rule of 8+.  I have a theory on that but it’s more metaphysical which I will go into later.

Do you feel the pressure happening? Do you feel something is going on that you just can’t explain but you know it’s something? I am going to explain my theory of what is happening on and what I recommend you do.

First I do believe there is a shift in energy going on. Let’s talk about the physical aspect first.  I am not the type of person to get headaches, but my head has been pounding for the last 2 nights. I know it has been Winter Solstice and there is a lot of energy around these days. I’ve been keeping myself well hydrated and treating myself nightly to deal with the pressure change. I don’t know how many of you are feeling something physical that you haven’t felt before which could be the shift in energy. If you are feeling just off, find someone to connect with, someone who understands Health and Energy Healing, that is trained to be able to help you. They will be able to help you figure out if it’s just the weather and you are coming down with something or do you need to work with someone.

I know there might be some Business people and/or Type A personalities reading this who really don’t believe in this. Please be patient and read below I will get to you guys soon. 

Next let’s talk about the mental aspect. These challenges that are coming up are taking a toll on people’s self-esteem and self worth. Having to deal with all the problems coming up like someone opened up Pandora’s box. I’ll be honest with you it is just that. All your past issues that you might not have dealt with are going to come up NOW! If you don’t believe me ask the people around you what they are dealing with and ask them if they feel it’s normal. I will tell you I have asked that very question time and time again. I get pretty close to the same answer; “This is Crazy”” Why is all this Shit Coming up Now?”“Did I piss God off” …etc.  Now this is just my opinion and I don’t want to offend anyone’s ego or beliefs which I know I will. So if this statement frustrates you Please Don’t E-mail me your frustrations I have enough work to do to help people.  Here it is… This has Nothing to do with a GOD the man in the sky, this is all our garbage we have not dealt with. All coming up at once for us to deal with RIGHT NOW!

This might be a harsh comment but think about the Movie “The Secret”. They talked about the universe will only give you want you can deal with, what you concentrate on will come about. If you think about the bills more bills will come. If you focus on abundance more abundance will come. Well that same universe is getting us ready for a New Paradigm but the only way we can be ready is to not bring our baggage with us. That is why all of it is coming up at once for a lot of people. Trust me I am no different my “SHIT” has been coming up as well. I am no different than any of you that are dealing with their past, except for one thing.

Here’s the secret to what is going on and that is why I have done the previous 2 posts about “The Journey” and “The Truth”. All of these “Challenges” that are coming up are things we need to face head on as best as we can. Now PLEASE do not do it alone, the goal of what I called the “Negative Ego” wants to divide and conquer. When you go and try to deal with a huge challenge on your own and get sucked into it. The “Negative Ego” has won and will start to try to keep you down as best as it can. It will make you feel depressed, tell you stories how you can’t do it, how you are not good enough, how this is all your fault, blah blah blah bullshit!  This is why when it comes to the easy stuff get it resolved and get closure as quickly as possible. When it comes to the bigger issues start connecting with family, friends, support groups, professionals… PEOPLE! Make sure you connect with the right people though, if you find the people you are connecting with are going through “The Shit” as well and are not dealing well with it, don’t jump into their quicksand with them. It just means both of you will sink quicker. Go to people who are having fun, who are grounded, people who know exactly what I’m talking about and are dealing with it. This way you can work with them to get out of your challenges quicker. Then you can work on those main principles of life I discussed in “The Truth” remember? Bring Joy to yourself, then Bring Joy to Others”.

Ok Business People I have not forgot about you :-) . When it comes to all these changes going on You and Your business are really one. You are the energy of your business and if you are going through challenges your business will take on those problems. Then you will see flux in profits, staff, clients…etc. That’s why it is important to be grounded and clear personally. Then work on the professional aspect of those problems because as an entrepreneur and/or business owner you are like the Life Coach of your business. You might not be going through challenges but it doesn’t mean your staff, business partners…etc are not. Take a look at the people who you work with, do you feel they are going through challenges, not appear. The reason I say not appear because remember the analogy of the duck in water, on the surface the duck looks like it’s just swimming along nice and calm. But underneath their feet are going a mile a minute. The people you work with might be doing the exact same thing. They might be going through what appears to be their normal day but underneath it is a tornado brewing.  Take the steps to help yourself first and then start helping the people around you. Kind of like that phrase before Bring Joy to yourself, then Bring Joy to Others”. ;-)  

I mentioned I would talk about people passing away recently more than normal. Now my theory on this and this is just my personal theory. Is that we all have a soul which we have written a contract for what we want to work towards. As well what we would like to experience. Some peoples contracts are up and they are done their work so they are passing on. Some people’s souls don’t want to come into this time so they leave very quickly. I know this is a hard theory to take in and please I am not saying you have to believe it yourself.  This is just my theory on why so many people are passing away in our lives.

If you have had a loss of someone in your life recently I am deeply sorry for your loss. My belief  is that they are still with us energetically and most of them are here to help us with the work that we need to do.

If you have any questions or need of help please do not contact me… Joking :-)

For sure contact me and I will do my best to help you as much as I can or refer you to someone in your local area that could.

Big Hug to everyone and make sure you deal with your “Shit”, I know I am :-)

Love & Chi,

Brandon

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The Truth…

It’s 6am in the morning and I have had a busy day yesterday.  Some of the challenges of yesterday I just can’t get off my mind because people I see are going through such challenges.  I feel bad from them but I know for most of them it’s their journey to learn from. The hard part of it is I know most of what they are going through is an illusion just like the Movie The Matrix.

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We all think what is happening around us is “The Truth” but in reality it isn’t. I am sure most of you are going WHAT! this guys is crazy, let me explain.

Each day we wake up our mind start to work and then this internal voice start to  convince us how our day is, are we still, tired…etc Is it going to be a good day or bad day. As we go through the day this internal voice tells us all sorts of stories.  Someone is mad at us, this person sucks and worse it starts attacking us saying stuff like, you are not good enough, you don’t have time to do blah blah blah.  Some of us have an understanding of it and call this voice in the back of our head, the negative ego, demonic…etc whatever you may call it, it is not The Truth, it is just an illusion of it.

I’m going to refer to the voice as the “Negative Ego” just so we understand each other.

When working with people all over the world I can hear this negative ego tell people stories when they articulate their challenges and the reasons why they can’t do something.  My negative ego overtime has decided to take steroids and bulk up because when I was younger it was able to get into my head and control me. For example when I got married my negative go told me I could do it, I shouldn’t listen to people around me that I shouldn’t rush in, I shouldn’t get married so soon. Take your time, get to know each other…etc Nope my negative ego told me I was  man and these people had no clue what they were talking about. Thanks Negative ego for all your help, 2 years later I got a divorce and had years of going in and out of court.  Which if I would have been present and not listen to the negative ego that I was ready and I could support a family at 20 years old. Knowing what I know now I would have never gone through that, I would have taken my time, I would have made sure I had a good job vs. working 3 to make ends meet.  Don’t get me wrong, good things have come from it, my son, better understanding of relationships…etc But I am sure I could have learned in an easier and cheaper way.

In the past 5 years I have learned about the Negative ego and developed an understanding that I know when it decides to chime in to see if it can’t steer me in the wrong direction. I can catch it about 95% of the time and be able to stop its attack. Don’t get me wrong it is constant work to be on the ball because the Negative ego is like a ninja in the night. This reminds me of a quote from another Keanu Reeves movie “The Devil’s Advocate” was “The greatest trick the devil ever pulled was convincing the world he didn’t exist.” Welcome the Negative Ego!

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It’s goal is to steer you off track, almost like a puppet and it’s puppeteer pulling the strings. The Negative ego wants to make you jump when it says jump, to stop when it wants you too and to hold you back from what I consider is the reason why we are here.  Which if you can really live this simple concept your life as you know it will change. Here it is, the reason why I feel we are here is this

1) Bring Joy to yourself

2) Bring Joy to others

When I talk about Joy this is not superficial joy of a car, house, rings…etc this is true joy which makes you happy, which makes you feel valued. If you can do this for you first and fill your cup up so you are overflowing with joy. Then you can bring joy to the people around you. Help them bring Joy to themselves so they can bring Joy to others. Think of this as an MLM style business we are all so familiar in.  But there is no opt in, you don’t have to purchase any product. You get to try the product for free as much as you want. Then go and tell your family, friends, potential business partners who you know who would benefit from this. Does this sound similar lol I have been in a few MLM’s so I know the lingo :-) .

I use this reference for 2 reasons, one we all know it too well on both sides either we have been approached by someone asking us to join a MLM company or we have or are in a MLM company so we understand the reference.

The 2nd reason is because to show you how the negative ego spurs it’s evil little head.

How many of you are in MLM companies read that previous paragraph referencing to MLM type lingo and got upset. Felt I didn’t value them…etc Be honest trust me I was there at one point for many of my business opportunities.  When I was in an MLM company I would have commented on this very post not reading the rest. Trying to prove that this person didn’t know what they were talking about. Then I would try to set up a meeting because I knew they needed my product. I am sure we all know someone who has done this, I know I have… ME!

Welcome to the negative ego because “The Truth” is MLM’s to me is just like any business which I have high respect for and I do coach people how to be successful in MLM type business.  Some of my best friends are MLM’ers and a few are very successful which I have learned a lot from.  They have helped me in my 2 business’s, which is keeping me very busy hint hint any of you thinking to contact me about joining their business. I respect that you have a business and wish you all the best.

Lets get back to the point at hand, The Truth is what is present in front of you.

Now anyone of you seeing a Coach, therapist…etc please apologize to the person you are working with for me because I am going to save you a lot of money right here. I am going to give you a few tips to use when the negative ego rear’s its little head so you can stay on track. This way you can do the 2 fundamental things we talked about before, remember… Bring Joy to yourself and then Bring Joy to others.

If you read Byron’s Katie book “The Work” you will remember the 4 questions

1) Is it True?

2) Can you absolutely know that it’s True?

3) How do you react, what happens, when you believe that thought?

4) Who would you be without the thought?

What do you think is that thought she is talking about? If you guessed it, it’s the negative ego coming up. Byron Katie is just providing you an assessment tool to be able to catch that little ninja at work.  This is a tool that if you use it often you will be able to catch that little guy 95% of the time. Which will save you a lot of frustration, plain and sleepless nights.

Our lives are supposed to be abundant with joy in all area’s of life. If it isn’t abundant then you need to assess where there could be more joy in your life and how you can change to see the joy in those areas. Don’t get me wrong sometimes we are in the fog and need someone to show us the light, I have been there when I was going through my divorce I thought life as I knew it was going to end. I was never going to be successful and that I was going to be tied up in courts for the rest of my life. Guess what it has changed! It took a lot of work and some amazing people in my life but I was able to completely change from IT consultant to a Holistic Lifestyle Coach. To unhappy with life to being happy with everything I have and enjoying life. It is all possible, it just depends on you.

Now, It wouldn’t be easy because the negative ego wants you to fail, it doesn’t want you to succeed. It’s goal is to hold you back to make you sanitary that you still go on but you don’t have any drive. This is what I recommend you make sure when you decide to go through your changes do it with a support group and a team of people who truly understand this. This way you can overcome that negative ego and see success quickly.

I wish you all Love & Chi,

P.S. if anyone see’s the negative ego in a dark alleyway lovingly go kick it in the nuts for me and say that’s from Brandon! :-)

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Love & Chi,

Brandon Krieger

For more information contact me at info@knssconsulting.com

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The Journey Begins….

It’s 9am right now and I’ve been having a interesting few months. Meeting a lot of great people as well people dropping off through the journey.

I haven’t wrote in a while because to be honest my grammar is terrible, people were all over me for spelling, sentence structure…etc. I agree with them that my grammar needs improvement and that’s why I started doing video’s it was easier to have a conversation that way vs. writing. I found with writing the people who were getting caught up with the technical writing weren’t hearing what I had to say.

I have sat back for a while to just watch and listen, which has been interesting with everything that is happening in the world.  With people feeling stressed, sick and worse.  It is hard to sit back and not want to help.

I say FUCK IT! I have never been one to let people hold me back, I do listen to criticism and try to do my best to always improve and become better.  But I can see that even with my close friends that are having challenges, I can’t be taking the side lines. I need to get into the trenches and start helping out.

See people don’t know but I have been trying to help people overcome their challenges in different ways, for example

Social Technologies Coaching- People don’t seem to realize that with the Social Media and Social Networks we are more connected than ever before. The Challenge here is people from what I see are putting financial gain, ROI…etc all these terms a head of building a relationships. Slowly people are understanding it is about the relationships vs. the financial gain. You can see even business’s are slowly starting to understand this main concept. That is why you will see the smarter companies are engaging in the conversations trying to relate and help provide support to their community with out pitching or selling.  That is why I  labelled myself as a Social Technologies Coach was to help people realize the technology is just a tool, just like the telephone. All that matters is how you communicate and build that relationship.

I have decided that I am going to come out from behind the scenes and really talk about what is really happening and what I would recommend you should do.

I have decided with the talk of 2012, all the energy shifts and really having a understanding of how it is affecting people I need to get to work. This is just the beginning of my journey.

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Love & Chi,

Brandon Krieger

For more information contact me at info@knssconsulting.com

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